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I am married almost 23 years, childfree, have a great gig as Web Production Artist in Corporate America, am involved within my community, a musician, and crazy about my amazing husband.

Can’t complain, because I’ve been pretty blessed.

“And since the day of femininity that is purely ornamental and utterly useless is gone by, it is the girl who does things well who finds life full of interests and of friends and of happiness.”
—Emily Post</description><title>happy drummergirl</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @happydrummergirl)</generator><link>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/</link><item><title>
I’ll have a Large Childfree with a hefty side of...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/4d8a699cdbac7cb0c82fabebb2b01e44/tumblr_mohowaRkD41rgj6reo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;b&gt;I’ll have a Large Childfree with a hefty side of Nope.&lt;/b&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
—happy drummergirl</description><link>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/53373568672</link><guid>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/53373568672</guid><pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 14:30:00 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>huffingtonpost:

digg:

Here are some..uh…creative ways people...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/2ab401561a8ebe214d1c1c07e8c30d9d/tumblr_molrt3Ek4Y1ruw1vso1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/a544635074457d7c718e9ce64bf5eb75/tumblr_molrt3Ek4Y1ruw1vso2_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/5151863efc38610745173993ca0456ba/tumblr_molrt3Ek4Y1ruw1vso3_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/25c7eab9c555dee836d060793f07fbfa/tumblr_molrt3Ek4Y1ruw1vso4_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/9d64a4c57ee1b6bde76966b4585ed488/tumblr_molrt3Ek4Y1ruw1vso5_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://huffingtonpost.tumblr.com/post/53305074142/digg-here-are-some-uh-creative-ways-people" class="tumblr_blog" target="_blank"&gt;huffingtonpost&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://digg.tumblr.com/post/53295160507/here-are-some-uh-creative-ways-people-groom-their" target="_blank"&gt;digg&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Here are some..uh…creative ways people groom their dogs. &lt;a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/newsround/22951423" target="_blank"&gt;This is terrifying.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;NO. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;


&lt;b&gt;Bona fide reasons for pet therapy. All kinds of nope.&lt;/b&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
—happy drummergirl</description><link>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/53365757524</link><guid>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/53365757524</guid><pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:27:17 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>thedailywhat:

Visual Aid of the Day: Anatomy of a Tumblr Post

</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/af0e2f2c04e23d54fbee4a0e85d0da32/tumblr_moda91aezn1rw9dz1o1_r1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/f4d7aa9faefd3d0ff834328d11203e39/tumblr_moda91aezn1rw9dz1o2_r1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://thedailywhat.tumblr.com/post/53306416550/visual-aid-of-the-day-anatomy-of-a-tumblr-post" class="tumblr_blog" target="_blank"&gt;thedailywhat&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;h2 class="pull-left title editable" data-edit-key="Title"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span&gt;Visual Aid of the Day: Anatomy of a Tumblr Post&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/53365666342</link><guid>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/53365666342</guid><pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:25:44 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>zooportraits:

ELK by Yago Partal 
for ZOO PORTRAITS


Like a...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/e990660eed97a8dae246c5fe4d9a5815/tumblr_mm629veiZo1s7aky5o2_r1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.zooportraits.com/post/49429233017/elk-by-yago-partal-for-zoo-portraits" class="tumblr_blog" target="_blank"&gt;zooportraits&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;ELK by &lt;a href="http://www.yagopartal.com/" title="Yago Partal" target="_blank"&gt;Yago Partal&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;for &lt;a href="http://www.zooportraits.com/" title="Zoo Portraits" target="_blank"&gt;ZOO PORTRAITS&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;


&lt;b&gt;Like a boss.&lt;/b&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
—happy drummergirl</description><link>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/53365182415</link><guid>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/53365182415</guid><pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:17:32 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>sirmitchell:

“ :) “ 
One of four prints I’ll have at SPACE! The...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/b9d66b7cb0287291f9cf825cdbe28cf0/tumblr_molgobMUJi1qzlfumo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://blog.sirmitchell.com/post/53279941908/one-of-four-prints-ill-have-at-space" class="tumblr_blog" target="_blank"&gt;sirmitchell&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;“&lt;strong&gt; :) &lt;/strong&gt;“ &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;One of four prints I’ll have at &lt;a href="http://blog.sirmitchell.com/post/51084072989/you-guys-i-am-thrilled-to-finally-share-this-with" target="_blank"&gt;SPACE! The Gallery Show&lt;/a&gt; this Friday at Gallery 1988: WEST. Be there or be somewhere significantly less awesome. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/53365147728</link><guid>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/53365147728</guid><pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:16:56 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>dtxmcclain:

Cadillac Coupe deVille, 1970


My parents had a...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/1355562aa1a0dc57fc46affd9a486d2a/tumblr_moirlaXbZf1qchs1zo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://dtxmcclain.tumblr.com/post/53323100072/cadillac-coupe-deville-1970" class="tumblr_blog" target="_blank"&gt;dtxmcclain&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;Cadillac Coupe deVille, 1970&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;


&lt;b&gt;My parents had a 1970 Fleetwood when I was little. Same grille and rear; metallic mint green. Rode like a dream.&lt;/b&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
—happy drummergirl</description><link>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/53365117912</link><guid>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/53365117912</guid><pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:16:25 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>dtxmcclain:

Cadillac, 1954


My dad had one of these!

—happy...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/d30c98dd6eec85400b4db1f8a5f87468/tumblr_mok8fygYd51qchs1zo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://dtxmcclain.tumblr.com/post/53361813060/cadillac-1954" class="tumblr_blog" target="_blank"&gt;dtxmcclain&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;Cadillac, 1954&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;


&lt;b&gt;My dad had one of these!&lt;/b&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
—happy drummergirl</description><link>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/53364509184</link><guid>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/53364509184</guid><pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:05:47 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>wackom:

sometimes at work I do animations that aren’t for work,...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/a6fbdc9c1ee7127b10cdc99fc4dd24fc/tumblr_mnyq271KhZ1qc8ofbo1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://wackom.tumblr.com/post/52288905170/sometimes-at-work-i-do-animations-that-arent-for" class="tumblr_blog" target="_blank"&gt;wackom&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;sometimes at work I do animations that aren’t for work, this is one of them.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/52380015255</link><guid>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/52380015255</guid><pubDate>Fri, 07 Jun 2013 10:21:08 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>What I needed to read today.

It is DH’s final day at this...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/03f2bb3748c4db2b6a8259616e002266/tumblr_mnjdmfbybz1rig40qo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;What I needed to read today.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;It is DH’s final day at this job.&lt;/b&gt; Monday starts yet ANOTHER spell of seemingly endless, fruitless, depressing job-hunting (with its related financial crimp).&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;How we crave a nice long stretch of time during which we don’t have to worry about whether our income will be jeopardized, have some much-needed emotional stability, and no fucking&lt;i&gt; angst.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/51799302052</link><guid>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/51799302052</guid><pubDate>Fri, 31 May 2013 08:28:00 -0400</pubDate><category>unemployment</category><category>work</category><category>frustration</category><category>hope</category><category>strength</category></item><item><title>pbsdigitalstudios:

Today’s tbt might just melt your heart. And...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/b778f8a843f6cc6e4726904d698badee/tumblr_mnm6tggnsG1rm6l18o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://pbsdigitalstudios.tumblr.com/post/51723734596/todays-tbt-might-just-melt-your-heart-and-thats" target="_blank"&gt;pbsdigitalstudios&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Today’s tbt might just melt your heart. And that’s okay.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/51798830959</link><guid>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/51798830959</guid><pubDate>Fri, 31 May 2013 08:15:25 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>sesamestreet:

Near… far!… near again!…. far again!… near...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/8d26201a3463a2462dd5532146400045/tumblr_mnmgt1eyHA1qd4fqho1_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://sesamestreet.tumblr.com/post/51734986593/near-far-near-again-far-again-near" class="tumblr_blog" target="_blank"&gt;sesamestreet&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;Near… far!… near again!…. far again!… near again!…. far again!&lt;span&gt;… near again!…. far again!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;… near again!…. far again!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;… near again!…. far again!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;… near again!…. far again!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;… near again!…. far again!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;… near again!…. far again!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;… near again!…. far again!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;… near again!…. far again!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;… near again!…. far again!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;… near again!…. far again!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;… near again!…. far again!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;… near again!…. far again!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;… near again!…. far again!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;… near again!…. far again!…&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;b&gt;&lt;p&gt;Apologize for the headache.

But Grover is just so … danged … cute.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/b&gt;
&lt;p&gt;—happy drummergirl&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/51742075329</link><guid>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/51742075329</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 May 2013 15:31:00 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>laughingsquid:

Electro Animals, Colorful Circuit-Like...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/3e4faaf92ac4b14d6b39839ed5398e14/tumblr_mnkfv0Y9mg1qhhe73o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://links.laughingsquid.com/post/51667584964/electro-animals-colorful-circuit-like" class="tumblr_blog" target="_blank"&gt;laughingsquid&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://laughingsquid.com/electro-animals-colorful-circuit-like-illustrations-of-wild-animals/" target="_blank"&gt;Electro Animals, Colorful Circuit-Like Illustrations of Wild Animals&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/51724524796</link><guid>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/51724524796</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 May 2013 10:15:11 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>And, yet another countdown</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;DH&amp;#8217;s assignment ends next Friday.&lt;/b&gt; This was the position he&amp;#8217;d hoped would pan out and go permanent. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;He&amp;#8217;s emotionally detached from the job, but has been 100% productive because that is &lt;i&gt;who he is.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
He will have to reopen his claim for Unemployment. Though it will afford him more time to finish his CCNA certification, it&amp;#8217;s still a depressing turn of events.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;And now begins our typical summer schedule—Wildwood with the drum corps, Ocean City, MD for our anniversary, and Pittsburgh for DH&amp;#8217;s birthday. These are already planned and we refuse to relinquish those plans.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;We&amp;#8217;ve been through this bullshit before, many times. &lt;/b&gt;Last year, he&amp;#8217;d just broken his foot at the fire call and that made his unemployment that much worse.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;At least this time he will be mobile, for what it&amp;#8217;s worth.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;It &lt;b&gt;still &lt;/b&gt;sucks.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/51334251984</link><guid>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/51334251984</guid><pubDate>Sat, 25 May 2013 18:10:00 -0400</pubDate><category>work</category><category>unemployment</category><category>hope</category><category>information technology</category><category>layoff</category></item><item><title>red-lipstick:

Decomposerdoll aka Sara Dunn - A New Addition To...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/281d1374c803ff47520f016dd6b6c858/tumblr_mmo9uaIRSl1qczwklo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://red-lipstick.tumblr.com/post/50232242424/decomposerdoll-aka-sara-dunn-a-new-addition-to" class="tumblr_blog" target="_blank"&gt;red-lipstick&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;Decomposerdoll &lt;em&gt;aka&lt;/em&gt; Sara Dunn - A New Addition To The Family, 2012                Paintings: Acrylics on Red Paper&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/50423506722</link><guid>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/50423506722</guid><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2013 11:26:44 -0400</pubDate><category>spork</category><category>this is how it's done</category></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/5131f7ac911813b1ca086da0f471c825/tumblr_mm5gdhOI8I1qd0mj6o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/50268110463</link><guid>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/50268110463</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 May 2013 12:45:59 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Who lives on the Funny Farm under the sea?

— happy drummergirl</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/136c93c4ad0cdf9c8964d1e78a843200/tumblr_mm98a48Hz71ru3go3o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Who lives on the Funny Farm under the sea?&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;— happy drummergirl&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/49567215808</link><guid>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/49567215808</guid><pubDate>Sat, 04 May 2013 00:05:21 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>laughingsquid:

CBS Eye Logo Turned Sideways Looks Like Pac-Man...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/377c513814203e6d465d2658f5772d16/tumblr_mm8fyzBAUx1qz4cuyo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://links.laughingsquid.com/post/49521770084/cbs-eye-logo-turned-sideways-looks-like-pac-man" class="tumblr_blog" target="_blank"&gt;laughingsquid&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://laughingsquid.com/cbss-eye-logo-turned-sideways-looks-like-pac-man-eating-pellets/" target="_blank"&gt;CBS Eye Logo Turned Sideways Looks Like Pac-Man Eating Pellets&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/49534746248</link><guid>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/49534746248</guid><pubDate>Fri, 03 May 2013 16:44:05 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/eb812b2bbd2a8d5f571aa7572b6af9ff/tumblr_mkxmz80UVk1rg1db3o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/49481649019</link><guid>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/49481649019</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 May 2013 21:57:40 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>The Problem With Married Couples Who Choose To Have No Kids - Babble</title><description>&lt;a href="http://www.babble.com/kid/the-problem-with-married-couples-who-have-no-kids/"&gt;The Problem With Married Couples Who Choose To Have No Kids - Babble&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;div&gt;“Married couples who have no kids are placing demands on a society that are making things difficult to raise a family. It’s selfish bullying.”&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Bullying?&lt;/b&gt; That’s ridiculous. Let’s talk about “selfish.”&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Let me get this straight, dude. &lt;b&gt;YOU &lt;/b&gt;decided to have kids … why? For your own reasons—company in your old age and being “showered” with love and attention by your kids and grandchildren.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;News flash: Not all elderly (included the childed) are so well looked-after, &lt;/b&gt;and there is no guarantee that your progeny will go on to have kids, or even live near you, for that matter. They might even end up hating your entitled, self-important guts.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Having kids to provide in some way for &lt;i&gt;your &lt;/i&gt;old age isn’t selfish at all, right?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt; 

&lt;p&gt;You seem to resent those who have decided against having children, and somehow think you are morally superior, but have to “sacrifice” so much.&lt;/p&gt; 

&lt;p&gt;Well guess what; having kids was your &lt;b&gt;CHOICE.&lt;/b&gt; Life itself is expensive, let alone vacations. Perhaps some of us decided against going the kid route for economic reasons.&lt;/p&gt; 

&lt;p&gt;Maybe we would rather contribute to society through donations, volunteering and the like. Perhaps we’re involved with other people’s kids in some constructive way, or we are loving caretakers of animals.&lt;/p&gt; 

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;How about all the state and property taxes &lt;/b&gt;we pony up? We don’t have kids, but we are helping put your kids through school and supporting many programs. We don’t get the tax breaks you do.&lt;/p&gt; 

&lt;p&gt;Or how about this—&lt;i&gt;maybe we just don’t want to be parents,&lt;/i&gt; just as some people might not choose to pursue elephant breeding or flip houses. It’s a &lt;b&gt;CHOICE.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;And I’m very sorry your getaways are a huge production and financial drain. You CHOSE it. We did not.&lt;/p&gt; 

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Bitter much? Good.&lt;/b&gt; Marinate in it, but keep the spew to yourself. Seems to me that YOU are the “problem.”&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/49450924826</link><guid>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/49450924826</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 May 2013 17:33:00 -0400</pubDate><category>no kids</category><category>selfish??</category><category>choice</category><category>childfree</category></item><item><title>WTF?</title><description>&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/a47eeacff5866c4c9a902c3272ec5a41/tumblr_inline_mlvaksOwmh1qj4w1w.jpg"/&gt;&lt;p&gt;

&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So DH goes into a meeting yesterday with his boss.

&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;His contracting assignment will be ending effective June 1, not resulting in a hire.&lt;/b&gt;

&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Why?

&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Budget issues. Yeah flippin&amp;#8217; right.

&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;How much more can this guy take before this job bullshit ends?&lt;/i&gt;

&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Seriously, WTF???????????&lt;/b&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/48931001937</link><guid>http://happydrummergirl.tumblr.com/post/48931001937</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Apr 2013 10:51:00 -0400</pubDate><category>work</category><category>screwed</category><category>give him a break</category><category>wtf</category><category>why</category><category>anger</category><category>frustration</category></item></channel></rss>
